Need help #love

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I'm posting this here because I need a lot of opinions to get some personal answers. I know it's not always the right thing to do, but I'm doing it anyway.

Actually, I'm bisexual, with a stronger attraction to women, but right now I have a crush on a male friend, and I need a lot of feedback.

First, some context: he's a friend I met through a new group of friends. I think he's nice, and he's the kind of guy who doesn't like being bothered and is what I'd call a 'chill guy'. It's only very recently that I've discovered these feelings I have and the fact that I can also have a weakness for men sometimes. Before I was really sure I had a crush on him, I would look at him, maybe more than others :/ Since I know I have this crush, whenever I think of him, my heart races and I get a strange feeling in my chest and head. So, could it be love? :) Also, I don't know if he would be ready to be with a boy. I think he once said he was asexual, so does that only mean he has no sexual attraction to anyone? Or no attraction at all?

Thank you for your answers, and sorry to my friends around the world who aren't French-speaking ;3 Sorry for the French, if you're learning English!! Tysm! 🫶🫶

Posted Feb 15, 2026, 10:51 PM UTC

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