28F Having no luck finding respectful people to chat with and feeling rather hopeless

Age 26-29

I’ve previously had very good luck with this sub last year as I met my current partner and a few good friends I hangout with IRL.I feel like I’m an open book and happy to talk about anything. Like genuinely willing to just chat about daily life and have deep conversations or share about my life.

However the more I post the worse I feel it gets. Like it really makes me feel dejected and objectified.I spend time sharing things about my life for someone to turn around and be inappropriate feels so disrespectful. I end up feeling like giving up on conversations in general new and existing.

Is there something wrong with my posts that I’m attracting a lot of people not in my age range, nothing in common or simply inappropriate ?. I specifically mention I’m in a relationship in my posts but it doesn’t seem to help.

I’m feeling a tad disappointed by it all. I’m not sure if there’s something wrong with how my posts are written. I do run them through chatgpt to clean them up but I don’t feel like they read too weird do they?

Posted Feb 15, 2026, 10:54 PM UTC

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