Married in the Kitsap County, WA area

I have been married nearly 20 years now and it has been over three years since the last time I had sex with my wife. We have a great relationship in every other aspect except this. For all intents and purposes I am in a sexless marriage because her sex drive is completely non-existent.

Mine, however, is through the roof. I can’t pass by a woman anywhere without imagining what she looks like, how she tastes, feels, and smells. That goes double if she is average or above in looks with even a hint of a nice personality. And triple if she is significantly younger than I (45) am.

I know this makes me a terrible person. I don’t want to change my status. I just want to find fulfillment for a completely lacking sex life.