Theory

Vent

Whenever a short man is talked about in public or when is considered as a potential love interest but has a competitor, it becomes a matter of who can control the narrative more.

This leads me to believe that the hand/feet/height correlation lie comes into play, now the more times you hear it, the more likely you are to believe it. That is called the “Illusory Truth Effect”.

Strength in numbers seem to be the name of the game, when you have a lie that benefits you and you have an unsuspecting gender relying on males to help them understand male behavior and anatomy it becomes easier to control the narrative and force an idea onto them. If it doesn’t directly benefit the individual spreading the lie then it will benefit someone that looks similar to them or who has a connection with them. By being with a shorter man, society will begin to pressure you into thinking a certain way about that. Being born is coming into this world with an empty slate, no identity, no thought process, no personality, etc.

When you navigate life the personality is formed by the way society treats you and how our lives have panned out, our society also pressures us into being a certain way and not letting our colors run freely, it’s orchestrated, governed, and regulated.

This becomes an argument about “ only the strong survive” but is that accurate considering the fact that a person or group of people can manipulate/ dictate the way another person thinks or gets treated. Proving a point like this will lead to a physical altercation majority of the time, sounds very primitive but it’s bound to happen when you have the facts and all they have is ego. There was this rumor that I became aware of, it seems to follow me everywhere I go, no matter the education level nor the age group that filters the environment. My height is 5’3” my shoe size is 8.5 US my hands are relatively small, and TMI but my size down there is 7”. When I’m flaccid you can’t really see a bulge, I’m a grower, but I’ve noticed that bulges or other extremities are used to determine if a male is worth the shot. Who made up that lie? Why? How can we correct it without coming off as weird?

It’s clearly a tactic and women that don’t know will inevitably help push this narrative, it’s not their fault, there’s a catalyst which are men that use tactics.

This plays a role in the short guy not getting picked whenever they are a candidate alongside other males who may be taller. It varies of course. Wonder why we don’t learn this in school, think about it.

Posted Feb 15, 2026, 11:02 PM UTC

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