Got dumped after sex

So, after a couple dates with a guy I met on a dating app, I finally agreed with a date at his house. We watched a movie, drank wine & chatted a lot. I need to add the side note that he wanted a date at his place earlier, but I didn’t felt comfortable with that. So we dated in bars & other places and had a perfect connection. We both had the same dating purpose (looking for a long term relationship)

Ofcourse, we did not only sleep but had sex multiple times that night & also in the morning. I left around lunch & later I got a text that he didn’t want to continue. I do feel really dirty, used & disguising that I chose to sleep with him. Not that he had to complain, since the orgasm counter was ‘multiple for him, 0 for me’. Also, the first time he finished before I could even think straight and ask for a condom / pull out. The other times, he pulled out luckily enough.

Today, I still feel used and super bad mentally. I don’t want to date and get ‘used’ again because tbh it’s the worse. Anyone ever experienced something like this, is it common for men & any advice? I’m normally super busy and social, training for a triathlon so sporty but all I can do now is being mentally broken and feeling disgusting towards my body. Also, I’m normally not very stiff regarding towards sex. I’m quite active but always share my intentions on forehand (fwb, one night stand etc). This time, it was really serious. (I’m 25F btw)