Am I Overthinking This Reddit DM Situation?
Okay, so I posted something on Reddit, and a guy DM’d me after reading it because he had gone through something similar at some point in his life. We started talking, and he seems like a genuine guy mature and intellectual. We moved to Telegram, and he’s actually fun to talk to. He brings a positive vibe.
But today, out of curiosity, I checked his Reddit account and guess what? He has brought 2–3 girls from the comments into his DMs before. I’m not judging, and I’m not anything to him to judge either, but it seems like he did the same thing with me. So now I’m wondering… is he just genuinely nice and likes interacting with people, or is he DMing girls for fun?
I don’t even know why I’m thinking like this, but Reddit can really be a strange place. He seems like a very nice guy, but after seeing those comments, something feels a little off. I might stop talking to him altogether.
Posted Feb 16, 2026, 8:31 PM UTC