38M4F - Gotta Have A Connection

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First things first: Please read the whole post. I'm not saying I expect you to memorize it, but too many times I've started talking to somebody and it was apparent they didn't read or didn't care what my preferences were...

"Alright, so who is this nerd? Probably another horny dude looking to sext."

Presumptuous of you....But fair, given the platform. Mainly, I'm looking for somebody who wants to share time doing...Whatever we click on. I'll give you some of my interests pretty quickly if we start chatting. I'm crafty, a big nerd, a writer, mathy, an ex-musician, and an enjoyer of people.

I would love to chat with you if you want to geek out about your latest crafting obsession, discover new music together, help each other get through boring and tough days, and discuss whatever silly thing you've been enjoying lately. Bonus points if you are into writing / roleplay. I'd love to have somebody to do some collaborative writing with!

I'm not looking for something short-term, though I won't be hurt if you set out to have a longer term connection and realize, in time, that it isn't feasible for you. Just know, though, that I'm not looking for a side-piece or a fling. If you're hot and heavy from the rip, I'll probably pull back a little. Give it time. Let things happen naturally.

I'm eastern US. You don't have to be, but if our times are so out of sync that we barely talk, understand that my level of interest will probably wane over time. My ideal person will be somebody who enjoys getting each other through the day and chatting back and forth.

If it matters to what you're looking for, I'm 6'2" and very broad shouldered. I'm....fluffy? chubby? thicc? I don't know how you want to describe it but I do know that I'm well-past the age of justifying or apologizing for it. if that's a problem for you, move along. I want there to be attraction in both directions and it's noticeable when it's not there.

I'm pretty much an open book, so ask a question if you're curious. Look forward to hearing from you!

Posted Feb 16, 2026, 8:37 PM UTC

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