Tryst (in my view) is the most reliable site for escorts in Hawaii. It’s Australian based, and I believe it was started and is owned by escorts. It takes a month or so to open an account. Escorts need to provide verification photos and copies of their government-issued photo ID. 

All photos on Tryst must be verified before they go live - they’re matched (by a human) with the photo ID. 

Caution is still advised. 

Because Tryst is the gold standard in many locations, deposit scammers want Tryst accounts. More reputable scammers (oxymoron!) offer to purchase real Tryst accounts — my partner frequently gets these e-mails. Most scammers just phish for credentials. My partner, and most smart escorts, use an authenticator app to log in. 

Not all of the 151 escorts are in Honolulu. If an escort is planning a trip here (called a tour) Tryst will start showing them in Honolulu searches a month or so before thet arrive. Some escorts post ridiculous tour schedules - a day here, a day there, no travel time in-between - to increase their searchable profile.  Ignore them. They just want to sell content. 

In Honolulu it’s not customary to pay a deposit. The first time I booked an escort I naively did so, and never saw “her” or the deposit. I was pissed - and resourceful. I eventually found it was a bunch of guys in a horrible metal shed in Bangladesh.  I befriended one online - but that’s a different story. The shed is no more, but I’m sure there are others. 

If an escort wants a deposit, I look elsewhere. But I do make exceptions, carefully, and only if it’s someone I really want to fuck. 

I wish some of the real escorts on Tryst - the majority of the 151 - would post on this subreddit to let us know about their offerings. Better still, if you’ve had a good or bad experience with an escort on Oahu, please share it here. 

Fucking an escort (at least for me) is totally different from fucking a partner or acquaintance. It’s just about sex and selfishly about my pleasure. I don’t need to hear about her life, her favorite color, what she’s binging on TV between clients.  

I’m a realist, not a fantasist. I believe I have decent cocksmanship and I have delivered my share of real orgasms to women (and even more faked ones). I don’t think I’m going to make an escort cum in the hour I’m with her, and I know she’s in it for the hundred dollar bills I’ve handed her more than for the sex. I’m fine with that. Let’s concentrate on me. That’s great fun. 

What are your thoughts?  Your experiences?  Do you have a name of someone I should see next?

 

There are 151 escorts on Tryst this morning who mention Honolulu in their profile