At the core society runs on a darwanistic model

You are behind due to parental abuse or peer rejection so never developed social skills? Then you miss out on key milestones that make us human and will likely be radicalized by some conmen on the internet for your entire adolescence.

Can't study due to stress, lower iq or bad memory? Can't have a study group because low status? Well low paying jobs forever for you then!

Can't find a relationship with a man/woman because you are socially behind everyone? Well sucks to be you!

Society has no solution for these issues nonstarters face other than platitudes or pretending it doesn't exist. They deep down know you lost the darwanistic race and want you to shut up about it.