Help with Sexting

I’m a 29-year-old woman, and my boyfriend is 28. He has a naturally dominant personality, and I’d describe myself as genuinely submissive. I truly enjoy our dynamic — including the degrading language and physical intensity — and I feel safe and comfortable within it. His confidence and boldness really draw me in, and pleasing him is something I deeply enjoy.

When it comes to sexting, though, I sometimes struggle with how to respond in a way that feels authentically submissive. It’s not discomfort — it’s more that I tend to overthink what I say. I worry about sounding awkward or not “submissive enough,” even though I feel the dynamic strongly. I want my responses to feel natural, fitting, and genuinely pleasing to him.

I think having some guidance would really help me relax into it more. Do you have ideas or examples of the kinds of things you enjoy hearing? I’d love to build my confidence and express that side of myself more freely.