Debating posting but hesitant

Hubby (45m, cis/bi/pan, 6'4,195) and myself (33f, transmasculine/bi/pan, 5'5, 130) (twin cities) are wanting to get involved in the community but I don't see many folks with fancy genders here so wondering what the general reception is?? Or how to go about getting involved in the community, or just general tips....