29 [M4F] The Beautiful Woman in the Wheelchair

My twenties were great. Parties, parties, parties. And more parties. And some other stuff occasionally. But I'm 29 now, so no time for that extra fourth "parties"; this is time to get serious.

That's how I feel in my dating life as well. I've had some success with women (and that one night with a guy that isn't worth mentioning) but something always felt... I dunno... off? Like it felt... empty.

The sex was usually fair to middling for me, I've always felt strange about how just not-really-bothered I was about sex, or even the building blocks of sex, like naked bodies, it just didn't really do much for pushing my buttons, I always felt different. But I know why, and I always have, it's just been hard to admit to myself.

It's been a secret I've harboured my whole life; whenever I see a pretty girl in a manual wheelchair my heart skips a beat.

For years I thought something was wrong with me, some wiring must be mismatched, and hey, maybe that is the case, but it's not like I can do much about it. It's my single button, and it doesn't get pressed often.

Until the day it does. In a little pub. When I see you...

Next thing I know we're dating, and it's the happiest I've ever been. I get to live this life with you, day-to-day, and it's everything I've ever wanted.

My paraplegic girlfriend.

I am attracted to disabled women, specifically those women who are paraplegics (paralysed from the waist down) and use a wheelchair full time in their lives.

I'm definitely far more attracted to them than able-bodied women, and always have been. Some people think it's weird, or wrong, but to them I say what does it matter between two adults who are perfectly capable of love? To me it's so powerful an attraction it might as well be a sexuality in itself. I love how they look, how they move, how they've adjusted to living in the world. Their day-to-day stories and frustrations, their deepest dreams and desires. Literally everything about them I find attractive, which is why I want this to be more slice-of-life than slice-of-sex.

But, the world being how it is, I know that I am at a statistical disadvantage here, and my chance of running into one of these women is slim enough, let alone one I'm actually attracted to by her looks and personality as well (because obviously I've got to be attracted to that, otherwise what's the point?).

So that's where you come in. Could you be one of those women? Even if just online for funsies? Or do you want to discuss it, I'm super duper up for chat about it as well (as you can imagine, I rarely get to talk about it with anyone). Established pretenders and wannabes are my absolute jam as well so please reach out (though please let me know if you are).

My preference is for this to be an RP where we message each other in character (after we build those characters of course) rather than a full-blown narrative, but I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, so I can do a narrative if you want

If you got this far and are still interested, DM the word Rosemary.