If I put baby dad on child support, would it lower his child support payments to his other baby momma?
Some context: I’m currently working two jobs while baby dad finds a second job so I can quit one. We want to get a place together to live in and raise our baby and hopefully soon, his daughter too.
We’re paying off our car and trying to get a lawyer for identity theft (the other baby momma opened up credit cards under his name which completely fucked his credit) and for visitation rights to his daughter. She hasn’t allowed him to see her for almost a year because he refuses to go unless her family or someone third party is there too. She told him he can only see his daughter if it’s “just the two of them” in her house
If anyone thinks there’s malicious intent behind it, yes you’re absolutely right :)
This woman has harassed me from the moment I met my baby daddy and stopped after I was able to put a restraining order against her so she cant legally come near me or my son. (She made threats against us such as wanting to kill me and my son and wanting to beat us up) all because my BD wouldn’t leave me for her.
There’s so much more she’s done but I don’t want to make this post too long or break the subreddit’s rules of venting lol
Posted Feb 18, 2026, 2:22 AM UTC