Those with highly intense/needy babies....

Can you tell me a bit about your experience. I am 8 weeks PP with the most intense and high needs little one. This is my second kid and my second high needs one as well. I was constantly told that the second is always easier and believed it would happen for me but he's actually been harder than my 1st somehow even though my first was really tricky as well.

I just need to hear stories of other moms because all I am surrounded by and see on social media are moms with babies who sleep or who can be out down with out screaming bloody murder. I know it's not forever as evident by my first but right now I find myself struggling so much mentally with it all