I am terrified right now. It’s been about 100 hours since the incident. Story attached.

NSFWMale victim

So last Friday night at 11 I find myself on Reddit sexting with this “girl”…

Stuff starts getting serious and as embarrassing as this sounds we were doing the whole Dom and sub thing and sharing photos.

Well she asks for a 40 dollar gift card to a gaming website as a one time fee so I agree and send it to her (this was def a guy btw).

Well it keeps going. She has me send a few NSFW photos.

She says I owe another 150 and this fee is for the “BDSM council” and that this is it.

Well we chat for another 25 mins or so and then she requests another 150. I say no and say I now know I’m getting scammed.

This is when the entire tone changed. I start getting the “😡😡pay me now”

And then that is followed by a photo of my face and my full account with family members house and company I work at on true people search. The NSFW photos were also attached.

So like an idiot I panic and send another 200 via bitcoin. She then says “her boss” is going to text me after. At this point I blocked all forms of contact. I deleted telegram, Facebook, requested to opt out of true people search and make my twitter and IG private and change the usernames.

At this point I’m going full on panic mode. Was unable to sleep at all.

I hear nothing until about 12 next the day (Saturday). Then I get a text “is this Joe (my name)?” I idiotically said yes but then immediately blocked the number after. This was a random number

After the follow up text (assuming this was them) I then started getting horribly anxious thinking I was screwed.

Well fast forward to Tuesday night (right now) and I have yet to receive anything and have heard nothing about anything being leaked. I got added on Snapchat by a random account Sunday morning but blocked it immediately as well.

I am still super on edge. I am so worried about the fact they have my work place. My life would be over as I know it if it was leaked.

With this much time passed do you guys think I’m in the clear here? I haven’t gotten a spam or any more threats.

I just don’t know right now.

Posted Feb 18, 2026, 2:31 AM UTC

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