When it came to an end..
We have had 7 wonderful years in this space. Married for 20 and previous to entering into the LS we’d both admit to the fact that our marriage had its ups and downs.
It changed our relationship, changed us as individuals and we have had the most blessed time. Communication has always been amazing, our love for each other has grown and we now feel more for each other than ever before. We have everything to thank for what this world has offered us.
That said, it feels like it’s coming to its natural end. It feels as though we want different things and respect each other too much to let those differences come between us. We have always made a promise that this is a shared experience and whilst in our hearts we don’t really want to stop, the sensible and rational thing to do is stop.
So, when all is said and done, and there’s no more parties, no more anticipation, no chance to meet new people that we can share our authenticity with … what actually happens next? What can actually replace such a rich shared experience the way the lifestyle can bring you together.
Asking for anyone thats navigated this successfully and if the feeling of missing it/missing out fades or if it lingers because once you’ve tasted thr nectar, you cant forget?
Posted Feb 18, 2026, 2:33 AM UTC