35 M4F #MD - Little looking for a safe place to come home to

Hello! I'm Andrew, 35M.

Thank you to everyone here reading. Um...I'm a Little, but also a guy who's looking for his female counterpart. Strangers, then friends, then hopefully something more both romantically and as a dynamic?

I have a hard time writing these. I try to be kind and honest and straightforward with everyone, and I do my best to be the best I can be. I'm a bigger guy, and not in a fit way. I know many mommies want a fit guy; but if you want me to be, I'm willing to follow your lead and try my best to do so. I just have a hard time following through with big huge tasks like that when I don't really have a clear direction of how to do it. I don't like sharp discipline or mean people. I prefer gentle and kind, which is how I hope I come off as well. I'm quite shy in person, and a bit nerdy. I usually like to cosplay, but I'm taking 2026 off of cons and cosplay to work on myself a bit. Tbh that progress is not progressing too well... I have a hard time with phone calls. And a lot of that requires calling in appointments and such. I do text...a lot. I like when someone I care about gives me that attention, but I don't like being the center spotlight either. I do well with lots of praise and attention.

I like to see the silver lining to rough people, and I give most people the benefit of the doubt, though I have learned my lesson a little bit and I'm now a bit cautious on here, so if you reach out, I'm sorry if I'm a bit awkward before I really get to know you. I've gotten fooled by the robots before and I don't want to again.

Um...I'm a bit conflict averse. Like, please don't yell at me. I'll walk away altogether or just totally ignore you because I don't want to get into it. I can discuss things flat out, but when it feels tense, or like I'm in trouble, I don't like it.

I have a lot of experience cooking and sewing, even though I'm a guy. I do have ADHD, so I can be weird or random or use strange metaphors at times.

You can think of me like a little toddler. 😅 I hate to say it, but with my ADHD and just generally, even without being a Little, the kind of treatment you would give a toddler actually works on me. Small, bite sized goals, lots of encouragement, gentle guidance, structure, slaps on the wrist fot being naughty, reminders at every step, The Glare, and even the way you would talk to a toddler works well for me. While it's fun in a CGL perspective, I have to admit it actually works all the time with me. I also tend to babble about anything and everything that pops on my brain once I get to know you well and trust you.

That's not to say I'm not a fully grown and mostly functional adult. I am kind, and I know I have talents in certain things, and I don't think most people would ever assume I'm a Little if they met me, unless they did something that would trigger that.

I also enjoy ABDL, which mostly I'm mentioning because I know not everyone is into that. I don't participate in it very often, but I do have a small bag of items and I would like to occasionally go to related events.

I am looking for someone who can relate to me in a few ways, mostly kind and gentle and nerdy. Someone around my age. I don't mind if you're a Little like me, or more of a Caregiver or Mommy. I used to consider myself a Switch, but now I'm mostly just a Little. I would like someone who wants someone like myself, someone who can push me a little bit and communicates very clearly about what they want and what is the stage they want. I have a hard time moving forward and being the first one, so I'm hoping someone who can lead, if even just a little bit. Someone who can be encouraging. Someone who wants to be that place to call home.

If this all resonates with you, please send a message.