45 [M4F] #FL #EST Looking for the intimacy/Kink/Excitement that’s been missing.

I’m a 45 year old, married dad of one. Usually a lurker but I’ve gotten the itch to try again. My marriage is generally happy but I feel like it’s missing its intimacy, its closeness and of course I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t think it was missing the spice, the spark, the lust, the want, and all that in between. I’m looking to connect with someone who’s easygoing but wants to have that closeness, who wants to be seen. I’d love to see you. I've been a dominant before and had a years long D/s OA relationship that sadly fizzled out due to life stuff. Not necessarily looking for the same kind of relationship but wouldn't be opposed to someone kink friendly. Mainly looking to meet and mesh and grow our chemistry and see where it leads. Not opposed to feelings or meeting if all goes well.

Tight OPSEC is a must. Ideally you’re between 35 and 50, EST/CST (not a dealbreaker if we click though someone in FL or south FL would be interesting), kink friendly, adventurous, articulate, fun, left leaning and looking for something or someone that’s missing from your current situation (insert obligatory ‘not wanting to change our current situation’ disclaimers)