bad luck or spell?

for a while now (and i mean a year) i’ve noticed that whenever i plan my day around seeing someone/a dinner/ a coffee etc it will ALWAYS get cancelled not happen in the end

i will admit that i am a pretty unlucky person, but could something more be going on here? its pretty tame so i wouldn’t say full blown hex or even curse, but maybe someone out there isnt exactly wishing me well

i periodically light protection candles

for the last few nights i was too exhausted to do so and some plans fell through today that im very heartbroken over

any ideas how to figure out if im just unlucky? and if it is something external, how i can get rid of it?