Coming out, I guess!
Hey all! Just stumbled on this community by accident yesterday, having never heard of the concept nor known it was a thing. However, as soon as I saw what it was, my reaction was, "wait, you can do that? ...That's awesome!" Having thought about it more or less continuously since then, and felt more and more excited and happy about the idea, I feel pretty confident in saying I'm Salmacian.
I'm AMAB and have always been masc-presenting, questioned my gender off and on throughout my adult life, and most recently come to feel that I'm some sort of nonbinary. I've long felt pretty indifferent to gender overall, mostly just wanting to be beyond the whole thing, and definitely have issues with my assigned social role as a man. However, I'm not dysphoric, and I quite like my natural body and the way I look. Having mixed genitals seems like it'd be really affirming for me, allowing me to express my feminine and nonbinary self in a powerful way while still maintaining the overall external presentation I like for the world at large, and without losing any of the anatomy I currently have and enjoy.
I'm going to look into penis-and-testicles-preserving vaginoplasty, see about options and risks. Would welcome advice and resources from anyone familiar with that type of procedure, as well as just a chance to connect with likeminded friends. Excited to be a part of this community!
Posted Feb 19, 2026, 3:17 PM UTC