IWTL military tactical skills

Just as a background i’m a 22yo male who hasn’t been in the military. I worked with a recruiter for months but eventually decided against it for political reasons i will not share. Now i still love the idea of joining the military but can join to help a government i don’t respect. Don’t mean to come off rude but i don’t want to hear “well you defend the constitution not the government” cause i get what you’re saying but sadly that’s not at all reality. I just want to know if there’s any reddit groups i can join to get experience or how to find IRL groups that do drills and training that would let someone like me join