is anyone else just super hypersocial?

i am diagnosed with bpd and adhd, and i was wondering if anyone else is like this but i just cannot exist without others present, like one of my biggest fears ever is being alone. my relationships with others are quite chaotic, some more than others but that is probably also because im dependant on alcohol. if i am alone i will just start spiraling and then i will obsessivly text or call other people or try to plan social events just so i do not have to be alone. some people just eventually get supee tired of how clingy i am and i have lost quite some friends over this. is this a common bpd thing or is it just me? none of the people i regularly see have borderline that i know of.