Looking for some advice

Hi everyone,

I’ve found the advice on here invaluable so I wanted to make another post to gain some further insight.

Me and my person share a young baby together after being together for three years. We broke up a while ago and I started manifesting him back in September. We haven’t spoken since December. I manifested bumping into him 4 weeks ago but we didn’t speak. He currently has no contact with our baby.

My goal is for my child to have a loving relationship with their father. I’m fully aware circumstances don’t matter.

I had realised (thanks to a lovely Redditor) that I was “trying to get” rather than being in the identity of having my baby’s dad.

I since started EFT tapping (Mental Diet Mastery is fantastic) and I really felt my nervous system relax. I do different videos each day and I’ve dropped a lot of resistance.

My baby’s dad owns a garage and he usually MOTs my car which is due next month. I want him to continue to do this because I know he will go above and beyond to check the car over to ensure his child is safe and I believe he will do the best job. I am not going this to force the 3D or to get contact, I genuinely want him to do this.

I get so many old stories pop up and it’s exhausting. I’m aware this is the old man dying but I have these random scenarios pop up in my head where he just says no and I have to keep correcting it.

I’m so good at manifesting. I manifest things so easily but I’m just bored that I seem to be taking a while to manifest this. My self concept is great too (I genuinely believe I am a princess 😂) and I’ve had ex’s come back and apologise and the same lovely Redditor reminded me that my baby’s dad coming back will happen too.

If anyone could give me any pointers, I would be so grateful 🫶🏻 thank you!