This is my favorite masturbation combo when solo.

I'm 53m by the way.

Obviously I love masturbating. Love being watched masturbating. Love mutual masturbation. Etc.

But something I've come to love for situations where I don't have a woman with me, is being on the phone with someone while watching porn together.

You get so many dynamics at once. You connect with someone else. You edge with someone else. You both watch the same porn together, so you're sharing an intimate experience. You are able to converse and talk. And you both get to cum together. Not to mention all the other things that go with it.

I have ended up connecting with some interesting and fun people all while scratching a few itches at once. We became friends and ended up doing it on the regular. Lots of fun.