Where are all my fellow gay autistic kings at??

I literally never come across any of y'all, not irl & not even online either, which doesn't make much sense, given the fact that autistic men are supposed to be less likely than allistic men to be straight!!

I've voiced this frustration of mine & I've been told that in the LGBT+ subs there are plenty of autistic gay guys, but I post here a lot & again I literally never come across y'all 🤷

So, if you really are out there: do you relate to my frustrations? Do you wish we were more visible as a community online? I very much do, I think we could develop a sense of brotherhood & comradery between us that currently seems nowhere to be found & that I think is so needed!

I also really wish as well I had any gay autistic male friendships irl & having that sense of brotherhood irl.

& ngl, I've long wished for an autistic boyfriend 😭 I've long had this wish/daydream of meeting a fellow gay autistic guy, falling madly for each other, becoming boytriends & then living happily forever after fucking like rabbits with each other, & I do really believe dating a fellow autistic guy would be a much more ideal situation than dating an allistic one, for obvious reasons; does any of y'all feel similarly to how I feel on this regard?

Btw: I'm also an ADHD'er!! Are you??

Edit: I actually have five close friends irl who are all queer & autistic... but they are all female 😭 like seriously statistically this makes no sense 😭