20 mo Daughter fights us at bedtime so hard

When we are changing her diaper, putting lotion on her, and getting her pajamas on her, she fights SOOO much. It’s been this way for months.

I think she just might hate being on her back, but she kicks us, hits us, screams, thrusts her body up and back, twists side to side. We tag team it, but we struggle.

It seems like nothing we do helps: give her a toy bunny she loves, sing with her, kiss her forehead, give her gentle head scratches.

She fights us like we’re trying to perform surgery without anesthesia and idk what to do