30 [F4M] - Although not the only reason, I'm drawn to Black men because size does matter to me.

Acknowledging this about myself wasn't easy, not even in the privacy of my own thoughts. As an Asian woman, I've developed an irreversible fixation with Black men, primarily due to that one pervasive stereotype about their endowment. There, I've said it. I’m sorry, but I just can’t help myself. Actually... I’m not even sure if I’m truly sorry. Regardless, I wasn't always like this. There was a time I would staunchly dismiss penis size as irrelevant to having enjoyable sex. Clearly, that perspective has changed, though a part of me wishes I can go back to my old naïve self. Ignorance is truly bliss. Life was easier and simpler when I didn’t know what I was missing out on.

Thankfully, Reddit exists as a safe space for me to vent about this. That’s why I’m making this post – fingers trembling slightly as I type – not to be judged, not to be lectured, but to meet someone who gets it... someone who gets me. I’m hoping to make a Reddit friend who’ll engage with me about this fascination of mine; a chat buddy who will egg me on with thought-provoking questions and words of encouragement. We could swap fantasies or even personal stories (if they exist). Mostly, I just want to talk openly about this without little to no pretense.

If you’re interested in being my confidant, then feel free to send me a chat request. Please put in a little effort into your opening message so I know you’re serious about having this conversation with me. Kindly include a brief introduction about yourself too because I would like to know the person behind the screen. You can expect me to do the same, of course. Anyway, catch you in my inbox.

Disclaimers:

1. All users and characters must be 18 and above.
2. The term "Black men" used in this post doesn't merely refer to men with darker complexion. Rather, it refers to men with sub-Saharan African ancestry/heritage.
3. Despite the title and content of this post, you don't have to be a Black male to apply to be my chat pal. All races are welcome, but I still want the conversation to center around the topic of this post.