Help a brother outt

First thing I made a pc some time ago but I haven't been playing so motivate me to play and I need some gaming buddies to have a blast with so come along🤍 2. Tell me the best games to enjoy solo and and with friends if you coming along

3. I need a controller , tell me everything I need to know I wanna have a great fucking experience I want haptics all that so tell me the companies and models I should go for I don't want to spend a lot on it but I can if it makes the difference. Please tell me everything I should I consider and all the options

Thank you