For those of you who complain about men who complain about not getting sex in relationships, saying that they should just seek hookups instead, would you be fine with those men complaining about their lack of access to hookups? If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex?

It's common here for men to complain about not getting sex early enough or often enough in relationships. The common response is that those men should just seek hookups if all they want is sex. Well, what if those men started complaining about not getting enough hookups? Would you be fine with that? If not, what is the correct, you-approved way for a man to complain about his lack of sex?