18 and her past
So this girl was in my school Grade but we never talked , I never looked at her , and she was overall quiet girl but she was always laughing and talking in her friend group. After 1 year our school got over , she replied to my story out of nowhere- Hey are you also preparing for this xxxx exam, we started talking regularly. We were talking for 1.5 month and we both liked each other probably, sending husband wife reels etc, planning future because we are preparing for the same career, now I asked her about her past , she told me she had an ex when she was 14 and then after breakup she made out with some other guy - lets say X - to move on and when she was 15 then was in another relationship with Y , and after this breakup she again made out with X . She made out with him 10-15 times , she told me every detail like how and when she used to do that in car , in basement etc and later she said she blocked that guy but that guy came back to her with different numbers and again called her , so she got back to him again. All this was before she was 17 , after 17 she is single and I personally know it because she was in my class. She also said that she didn’t know what she was doing and she fucked up her chances of finding a genuine connection because she told me now she always find guys trying to makeout only , so she don’t talk to them.
Now the thing is that I am confused asf, I don’t know whether to accept her or not because I am virgin and I had no kiss but she also said that she is a virgin too and didn’t have sex because she didn’t believe him
but thing I like about her is that she supported me to clear one of my exams when there was no one else helping me and helped me a lot guiding me through stuff. and IF l ignore her past thing ; I said I don’t like you having guy friends , she said Ik the boundaries like if someones being touchy or stuff like that but her sitting on a friends bike is okay for her. you can call me insecure for that but idk.
She said she want a guy that won’t care about her past because she was young and she accepts her mistake and want a guy so good in life that these past things wont matter to him.
Then I talked about that guy friends thing first time she was kind of rude and said - think whatever you want , I don’t care and then I said I don’t want to talk about this and then I ghosted her
Posted Feb 19, 2026, 3:50 PM UTC · edited