37 [M4F] #DMV #Seattle/Online - Looking for a connection with a sub

Hello! I’m a 37 year old dominant whose been in the scene for about 14 years. I live in the DC area but work takes me around the country (primarily to Seattle at least once a month) so I’m open to meeting someone who may not reside in DC so long as we’re in alignment that IRL meet ups would be the goal. I have tried the online only thing and, at least for me, I need the in person component to solidify the dynamic. Seattle would be the ideal for this.

Attraction is obviously an essential element to any dynamic so in that vain: I’m 6’1, about 200lbs with an athletic build, and regularly work out. Though I don’t have the gym bro only chicken and rice build. More of a you can tell I work out regularly but also that I enjoy a burger from time to time build. Jason Kelce rather than Jacob Elordi kind of athletic look.

I’m happy to talk about my domming style, kinks, limits, etc. (and I’ll say I lean in the pleasure dom direction) but in my experience that all works out when two people have an honest connection. With that in mind: I’m passionate about film, music and reading. I am always listening to a book on audible, don’t skip leg day, believe live music is the best first date, and think friends shouldn’t let friends get republicans off.

I will also say that I am ENM and in an open marriage. We play entirely separately and I am not someone who has more than other partner at a time, nor would have I ever have more than 1 sub at a time. Still I understand that this is not everyone’s cup of tea and I don’t want to waste anyone’s time

If this has peaked your interest at all, please feel free to reach out.

Hope you have a great day.