Hey you - let's talk about self-pleasure?

Hello loves!

I'd like to start a series of ongoing conversations with you guys, with the focus being on building community, skill sharing, and increasing vulnerability and breaking down barriers.

Today, I'd love to ask, how proficient do you feel you are at self-pleasure? Can you make yourself cum? What about orgasm?

I ask because I was actually incredibly bad at this for a long, long time. I've struggled with enjoying my body a lot, likely due to past traumas, and over the last few years I've discovered that I haven't been remotely gentle enough with my body, and I've let others touch me in similarly rough ways that haven't been pleasurable. As I grew to understand my need for gentleness, I've unlocked an entirely new realm of self-pleasure that was never accessible to me before.

Have you ever experienced "le petit mort"? Have you ever had an orgasm so strong you faded into the universe for a few seconds?

Let's talk about it <3