It’s been 2 years since family kept my abusive narc brother in their home.

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My family knows about the abuse I endured from him as a child. The threats. Blaming me for everything. Calling me names when I ask questions. Does property damage. Vigorously shakes his junk when he had a big hole on the crotch of his pants and he didn’t care that I was shocked. He and my mom’s friend’s son lead me into his room and got me to also abuse their brother. I was used and touched and being treated less than human by him.

And my family lets him stay at their place anyway.

They enable him. Says he needs help. He’s 6 years older than me. What about me and my feelings? I’m disabled. I was constantly traumatized from brim at his ‘care’ when he would “babysit.” He would leave me in a room and promised to come get me and he leaves me for HOURS.

I had to cut off the relationship with my other brother cause he was still friendly and joking around with him EVEN THOUGH I TOLD HIM ABOUT THE ABUSE. HELL, HE WAS THERE THE HALF OF IT AND PARTOOK IN THE ABUSE. And he claims to be the person that will punish the “bad guys” when he gets the chance. Well, he had his chance. And he betrayed me because my truth was too inconvenient for his current lifestyle. I’m thinking of confronting my parents soon and I might give them an ultimatum to choose him or me.

I’m suffering and my family acts like everything is back to normal now that I aired my grievances.

It’s been over 2 years…

Posted Feb 19, 2026, 10:03 PM UTC

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