30 [M4F] #Online #Europe: Obedient pet ready for training

I'd love to find someone to explore a dynamic as the sub. At least initially I'd like it to be online only, but when trust is built, if the option exists, I'd be very open to meeting IRL too.

I am open to both, sexual and non-sexual directions, in the dynamic, but I am honestly at the moment more interested in a less sexual, everyday direction. I love noticing and being reminded by tasks/rules, that I am owned and have to behave according to my domme's wishes.

Experience and Preferences:

I am switch, but with a strong tendency towards being sub, which is where I feel the most comfortable.

As a submissive, I’m interested in being a pet or plaything for my owner. I’m very obedient, rarely bratty, and I respond well to praise when I fulfill tasks. I don’t have a problem with punishments if I mess up, but overall, I prefer a gentler femdom approach instead of anything too aggressive, but I especially like a kind of gentle bully approach. I can explain it further when we talk.

Generally, I’m looking for something lasting that fits into both our daily lives and allows trust to develop over time, and to evolve the dynamic from there.

About Me:

I’m 30, based in Europe, and work as a digital artist. Interest-wise, I’m pretty much your typical nerd. I’m on the shorter side (1,72m), and I’m working out to get in better shape.

I’m respectful, open, and a pretty communicative person, maybe even too communicative, according to some friends. I’d rather talk about issues openly than let things fester. I do admit I’m not great at picking up hints, so someone who’s also good at communicating is much appreciated.

I like listening to people be passionate about what they love and I'm always interested in learning something new, be it about a person or a topic. You can expect me to really want to get to know you and to take in everything you are telling me!

Who I’m Looking For:

I’m hoping to find a domme who’s either experienced or interested in exploring this together. The type of sub I am is probably some mix between a pet and assistant, so that should probably work for you. The type of domme I like is a mix between caretaker and wanting to make me better and a kind of bully type who's maybe a bit degrading, but not in a seriously sadistic way. But I welcome anyone to message me regardless, there's always the chance to click!

Ideally, you’re somewhere between 27 and 38. If you want to gain experience yourself, that’s absolutely fine.

Logistics and Boundaries:

I’m in Europe, so a similar timezone is ideal but not a must. The main thing I ask is that you don’t ghost me. If something isn’t working or there’s no chemistry, just let me know before leaving.

We can have calls and audio messages from the beginning. But I would prefer to send photos or videos/have video calls after there's an initial trust built. How long that takes depends on how it feels for both of us, might be a few days or longer.

Establishing what each of us wants from this dynamic and is looking for should be a natural, comfortable discussion for both of us, so I'd ask you not to demand me addressing you with honorifics or anything in the first DM. Outside of play it's still eye level.

The only hard limit I’ll mention here: I’m not interested in being expected to buy things or give money. I’m looking for a genuine connection, not a financial service. Anything else like kinks, interests, etc. can be discussed in private.

If this sounds like it might be a good fit for you, I’d love to hear from you and see where things could go. In your first message I'd love to know what your personal style of domming is and what you're looking for. Happy to hear from you!