Is it just me or does everybody goes thru this identity crisis phase?

Need Advice :snoo_thoughtful:

Okay hello to start with, i am a cis female and currently identifying myself as panromantic asexual

but im having an identity crisis of my label, have been ongoing identity crisis since i noticed that i like girls since 13

I am definitely an asexual for now since I couldn’t find the big meaning of physical affection and kissing, holding hands kinda things for me

id rather prefer snuggling together and having movie night together or more like platonic things

My identity crisis is like i like girls but i have a tiny possibility open for other gender to identify myself to be a lesbian, not sure if im bi or pan but i’m more drawn to personality so it seems like i’m panromantic or so, born a cisgender female but always felt like more close to non-binary but more of a she/they(not sure if this is a thing sorry no offense i’m just genuinely ignorant and stupid) than they/them pronouns kinda like wondering why i have boobs ever since puberty hits but not in a mastectomy or transition considering way

I don’t even know what to label my crisis its just crisis the only thing undeniable is that im queer so is it just me going through this crisis?

Posted Feb 20, 2026, 4:23 PM UTC

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