Conscious about my unusual adolescent-sized frame and short height

I am 165cm and weight 59kg at 18 years old, my bone frame is small and narrow as it never grew past 14 years old and my hands/arms are really skinny and small. I am very conscious of my extremely rare growth pattern which had me look like a hairy child at 18 and have me unable to picture my future as an adult that looks different then all his family memebers especially my father who I look up too, I need mental support and help from someone who has a similar rare build as me to assure to me that its not over as all short people I know are average in other traits and don't share the same rare growth pattern I have been cursed with.