38 [M4F] This is Supposed to be Easy

What ever happened to just starting things off with a chat?

Small talk comes before deep conversations. Standard questions are in fact something established by authority, custom, or general consent as a model or example. You can't set a world ablaze without a spark. You can't achieve a spark without the fundamentals of just casually getting to know someone.

Do I want all those things? Absolutely! But that kind of special takes time in the crockpot. I mean you can use the microwave but you shouldn't be disappointed in that cardboard, unseasoned, sodium induced bloated feeling. When you build the foundation on quicksand i.e. Love Bombing, saying you hate small talk, don't want to be asked the same question for the millionth time, pretending like you can be someone's everything, and not setting firm and clear boundaries on day 1, You're just building a failed project.

So if you're looking to actually get to know someone and do away with all the frivolous talk and fairytale wishes. I'm here. Just a regular ass human, looking for regular ass conversation. And maybe we can end up being regular ass friends that actually support one another and treat each other with respect.

P.S. If you check my profile, you’ll find an About Me pinned post and a SFW picture.