Is the change in the societal perception of being fat ruining dating?

I keep seeing tons of posts on the internet about starvation mode, natural body types, "gym guys love fat girls", guys performatively talking about how they're into fat girls (tons and tons of this on twitter), "if he's the right one he won't care." I've also gotten on the dating apps again for the first time in a little while. I do fairly well with regards to likes received on the apps compared to what I read about online (tall not particularly chopped and in shape) but holy shit like everyone is fat now. Plus whenever I do match with an attractive woman they eventually ghost. Has it always been this way? It's insane.

Haven't measured but L + G is probably equivalent to a toilet paper roll