30 [M4F] #Online #Germany #Switzerland – What are the odds of finding something real?– Dom for sub, online to possible irl

Hello there,

Welcome to my little corner of the internet. Hope your journey wasn’t too tedious. Here, sit, have a cup of tea/coffee and indulge me for a moment.

Obedient? I like that. Are you a good girl perhaps? I happen to be looking for one.

 

To start off on the right side: Ultimately, I am looking for something long term. Be it a relationship or just a bit of time well spent. As long as the interest is genuine feel free to reach out. Maybe we will get along.

With that out of the way…

 

TLDR: Kinky guy looks for kinky girl for something long term

About me:

In some ways, I am just your average guy, in others the exact opposite. A simple heart and complicated mind. About 180 cm tall, 85ish kg, with brown, short hair, blue/grey eyes. Conventionally attractive. Working out, but do not look like it. An engineer, a nerd, cook, a bit of a hopeless romantic, someone who likes to get inspired by others. Especially in the little things. Prone to enjoy a variety of things and even more so to learn about others. Currently speaking three languages fluently (DE/EN/RU).

I would describe my personality as quiet and reserved as well as confident with that. I’ve been told that I appear serious, intimidating or strict, at least from afar, which is not necessarily true in personal interactions. I try to not take life too seriously despite mostly being rather logical by nature. Trying to answer people with the same intention they bring to me in kind.

Who I am looking for

A partner in crime. Someone with a bit of passion. Someone with a need for devotion and submission to another. Someone kind and willing to explore, in every way of that sentiment. Someone with a head on their shoulders but also the willingness to let go sometimes. A woman, somewhere between 24-32 in Europe or close by (GMT+1). In case of a romantic relationship, it should be monogamous and something open to be carried into real life, in case we click well enough together.

I don’t have a type, but longer hair, a slim waist and some confidence will be duly appreciated.

Bonus points for appreciation of dark humour and creativity

Kinky me:

This is the part that brought me to making this post in the first place. Do not get me wrong, vanilla relationships are great, but BDSM brings another level of intimacy and trust into the connection that would be a miss for me in any personal relationship. Not to mention the trust and effort that takes to build something lasting like that.

I would like to build a power dynamic with me as a the Dominant and you as the submissive. The D/s part might be only constricted to the bedroom or have some elements outside of it. I do have some experience with tokens outside of a bedroom only dynamic which I appreciate, the details are up for negotiation. The only thing I am not looking for is an absolute 24/7.

If we get anywhere near playing with each other, safety and trust are the bare minimum I am willing to accept. And in my experience, an enthusiastic consent to a hug is more intoxicating than the wildest lukewarm scene you can imagine. Can you relate to that?

 

And now since you read through all that here is a little easy treat:

 

Power exchange (Do you enjoy the sweet comfort of surrender?)

Orgasm control & edging (Patience is a virtue after all)

Sensory play (Let me figure out, what makes you tick)

Bondage (Let’s be honest, who doesn’t?)

Impact (A little colour keeps the motivation)

Begging (Do you like being a quivering little puddle?)

Praise & (affectionate) Degradation (What should I say, I’m a sucker for a good girl, and if you are one you deserve to know that)

Toys (Variety makes life more enjoyable)

Aftercare (No adventure is worthwhile, if you don’t stick the landing)

Limits:

Anything illegal, any permanent damage, Age regression, exhibitionism, smoking, blood, scat

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Nothing aforementioned is by any means exhaustive, exclusive or absolutely detailed out and should be viewed as a starting guiding direction rather than a hard line. The rest I will leave to your imagination, or maybe the negotiation later on. Every connection is unique and should be appreciated in its own way after all.

 

Have I kept your attention? Got any thoughts, fantasies, comments you want to share? Do reach out.

And in case you are looking for something similar, introduce yourself. Tell me about your passions. Describe yourself. Share your wishes. Or don’t I won’t tell you what to do… Yet…

Thank you for reading.

I only ask you to be respectful, everything else is up to you.