New to CNM tips

F32 married to hubby of 11 yrs. As of last year we decided to open the marriage. Around that time we also had a breakthrough of open communication when it comes to our sex life. I’ve always been the adventurous and vocal one when it comes to sex. He has always been shy and just happy to be along for the ride. Sex has always been great and now it’s been even better!

Since then I’ve suggested bringing in an old family acquaintance. So far the boundaries in place is we can form connections within this trio and pursue sexual relations all together or separately within the trio. Hubby and him are hitting it off so well, as well as myself and I feel so smitten!

Unfortunately, for the time being we are long distance but are planning our first mmf once we are all together. So with all that being said and us entering this new world, what are some tips and pointers I should know going forward. As well as some mmf/mfm positions because I don’t want to look like a deer in headlights in the act😅