Trying to get dates kinda sucks to be honest

Okay so I (21mtf) have been on a couple dating apps judt to see what's near me since I live in south Dakota I know its already difficult. But when I came out as a trans lesbian I got slammed for it. But I would go on dating apps and just minding my own business trying to talk to people and I keep getting called a guy which is like whatever I'm not ashamed of it. But why do people not understand im trying to find the one not judt some stupid hookup ugh some people are just annoying 😭