this was yesterday and i love my gf so i came here to talk about it. please be nice im new here. 


  
she’s the oldest of six with three younger sisters and two younger brothers. they’re super close. like physically affectionate, always hugging and stuff like that. i’ve always thought it was sweet, honestly. it made me love her more seeing how much she cares abt them.


her uncle only has two kids, both guys. the older cousin (25) recently got married because his girlfriend got pregnant unexpectedly and the baby was stillborn. it was awful. ive seen him cry andive seen my gf cry for him. im not heartless abt that so i genuinely feel for him.

after that, he and his wife decided to take space because it was just too much. so he’s been staying at my gf’s dad's house. 


yesterday morning i wake up and notice her 12 year old little brother isnt around. i dont think much of it until her sister casually says he gotta still be asleep with his cousin. 

later i literally see them come out of the cousin’s bedroom together and everyone acted like it was normal, because the cousin didn't want to be alone. 

and i want to be so clear. i am NOT accusing him of anything. i don’t think he’s evil. i don’t think he’s secretly something. i know he’s grieving his baby. 

it just made me uneasy. like i’m not used to grown men sleeping in beds with little kids even if they’re cousins. i left after trying to talk about it with my gf but she just kinda shut me down.  i tried again later over text and this is what happened. aio by for feeling uncomfortable with this even with context? 





aio for feeling uncomfortable abt this even tho i know my gf's cousin is grieving?