Server Setup Help (please i beg im gonna start BEATING eggs if you dont help me)

So I have a home server

Specs:

32gb DDR4

3060 12gb

Ryzen 7 3700x

Im using Faster for arma 3 server setup. I've gotten it working to the point where I can join via lan on my main pc and play properly, so Its obvious the server is UP, it just wont show up on battlemetrics or on the internet or for anybody else.

I need help, I made inbound rules in my windows firewall settings for every port I felt was relevant, 2302-2306 2344-2345 and some long ass ones for steam and battleye, even though the server has battleye turned off.

Port forwarding is enabled via my router/modem, I have xfinity. I have no idea whats going wrong. I just need help getting this server properly up.