The sweet spot for porn?

I want to find something (things ideally) that my husband and I both will like. Like what I imagine most guys are he is fine with about anything, though we both prefer something that doesn't feel fake. I like the idea of fit people with homemade porn.

I guess what I am looking for is something between (and preferable not just women) than Blue is the Warmest Color and searching for "fit couple, homemade" on porn sites. Does this exist? Am I asking for too much?