being around my friends and their spouses/gfs

I'm 35, and I'm at that age where most of my friends are in relationships/married/etc. We still hang out, but I just can't stand most of their partners. A lot of them try to make fun of me and say snarky comments, and my friends won't say anything when they do it, but when I stand up for myself, my friends get mad at me. Is there even a point of being around them anymore?