Me (23F) and my partner (23M) had a conversation about our future. Is it understandable if I feel this way?

I asked my bf if he has plans for our future and he answered me with “Why are you rushing this?” I feel upset because I felt like if he had plans, then it would be an easy question to answer.

Before when he was drunk, he told me that he couldn’t see me in the future. We had a huge fight about it but he said sorry in the end. And now that I’m making career plans for the future, I feel like our future is intertwined and I want to make decisions where I see him in the future with me. But now, I feel uncertain. He talked about his career plans, but not specifically our future.