How long to wait for a guy to reply? (23f) (30m)

I met this guy in a club the other day and we oogled each other for like 30 minutes before he approached and we got to talking, dancing, and of course with all the alcohol he kisses. Usually if I meet someone in a club I don’t even care for them the next day but he was my type to a T and the chemistry was crazy.

Anyways the next day I messaged him “hey cutie, wanna get drinks soon” (7pm) and he said “as long as they’ll be more kisses like the ones we had yesterday” (9pm)and i said “i’ll give you all the kisses that you want” that last message was at like 11:30pm. It’s 5:30pm the next day and he hasn’t replied yet. Do I wait a little longer or just cut my losses. I was in a relationship for years before this so I forgot what this kind of thing is like hahah.

Thanks in advance!!

and just to be clear i’m fully aware to not expect a relationship out of someone I kissed at a club:)

Posted Feb 20, 2026, 4:37 PM UTC

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