I was '20M' back then in college. 6 months relation with her'20F'. She broke up saying we have no future. Called her 11th feb before valentines 2026 and found out she is dating someone. Feeling like a loser .please advice me what can i do as i have written quite a summary.

At the very beginning, she asked me out. I was a shy guy and told her to be my friend, and i didnt rejected her, but I saw she was persistent for over a month, and that moved me. My friends told me she was a good being. She even removed her girl friends, only to be with me, as her friends told her, "go mix with the boys".But in this 1 month, a third person told me that" this girl had something with another guy " in really bad words and tone, which i dont want to tell, and she saw me talking with this 3rd person. She became anxious, and later she told me that she kissed this guy twice,e but she didn't like it,t as that guy would force her and talk dirty for over 2 months before asking me out, and that her friends matched them. At that point i was falling for her, so I kept her respect and didn't ask her more about this. and got into relation after some time. She was obsessed with me; my friends would say that to me often, and she was interested as well. You have to marry me, I will never leave you, she would run away if necessary, all those things. She initiated the first kiss and gave me her exclusive pictures even without me asking for them. its the first phase of the relation, all lovey-dovey.

After 6 months, suddenly out of nowhere, she broke up, saying we have no future. I respected her decision and said just ok and stopped talking. A week later, she came back, but you know something was off. She even told me to envision that our family at one dining table is not possible because her dad was an army officer and my father was a soldier. Anyways distance was increasing, ultimately leading to no contact for 2 years. And the last time we talked was her line, "We will talk about us after the higher secondary," which she said at the last exam. Now i didnt reach out to her as I'm not insecure about my family, and as she envisioned our no future. I gave up externally, but deep down I was hoping. I tried to be an officer for almost 1.5 years of time investment, of trying, but was rejected, and was hoping that I would stand before her with the green card so that we could be together. again i tried for studying abroad for better opportunities, and back in my mind i was hoping for us that maybe this time, but again, there was an issue with the consultency i was applying with, and the plan was cancelled, and now I'm in a university. After 2 long years of hoping to stand before her with a certainty that became a failure, I decided to talk with her about us, so that we no longer hide and seek. Called her september 2025, she was mad, and her last words were "she dont deserve a guy like me". Blocked me everywhere. 15th of Feb 2026, found out she is in a relationship with someone, and she dont want to see me again.

End of story. Now that I think of her or imagine, this is not the girl I knew once. The word love that she once defined to me, I'm completely speechless! She could at least talk about us, or she wanted to know if I was ok or not when I first called her after a long time, instead beacme mad and blocking me. How could she fall for another man when I was the fool, always hoping and working for us? My big mistake, i didnt let her know that I was trying for us. I feared What do I have to offer her? and she might not want to talk or reject all this time.

Feeling like a total loser. HELP!