I came here form a fucking meme on a different subreddit and i thought it either wasn’t real or the mods already took it down…but turns out you can get away with crazy shit on gay male subreddits cuz that’s just how men are ig 😭

what in the ever loving fuck is this shit bro. people understand that it was literally epstein’s “good looks” that helped him lure in victims, right? this is how predators are able to get victims in general. they look nice and friendly, they act nice and friendly, because it’s all apart of the grooming process. and then these fucking idiots just admit to the world that they can’t understand the manipulation tactics used 

I’m a lesbian and I used to think I was safe around gay men. fuck no we are NOT 😭 go look at any subreddit that’s strictly for gay men. It’s bdsm and porn talk which is expected cuz every space is like that, but also… the fucking AGE GAPS bro. age gaps are SOOO common amongst gay men from what I see. go look at general lgbt subreddits or ones strictly for lesbians. are they gonna talk about porn and kink? probably. but weird age gaps don’t seem that common, especially not in lesbian subreddits. this isn’t me trying to say “lesbians are better than gay men!” or some shit but I am saying queer women tend to be less predatory than queer men and that’s because we’re all socialized by the same patriarchal society. so gay men take all these weird things they learned from patriarchy (date younger, abuse your partner, go for young hairless women, etc) and add a same sex twist on it. and people always say “how can it be misogynistic if it’s two men?” because they learned it from misogyny and applied it to their homosexual relationships.. and even if it wasn’t misogynistic, I don’t want men abused either??? omfg 😭

like i remember seeing a post on a gay male subreddit and it was like some guy talking about how he lost his virginity. He was 21 while the other guy was 37. They had anal sex in public and without any lube and OP said how badly it hurt and how he was scared they’d get caught but he said “he always asked for consent” ??? dawg he took you out in a public area and didn’t even prepare you for your first time or give you any lube. all the fucking comments were saying “good on your partner for communicating well!” DUDE. HE WAS PHYSICALLY TORTURING OP CUZ HE COULDNT BE BOTHERED TO BRING FUCKING LUBE CUZ HES A SELFISH PERVERT. are we deadass bro. I feel fucking bad for these people but I can’t say anything without being called a crazy bitch or being told I’m basically homophobic for thinking this is predatory. also a lot of men in those subreddits say their dating age range is as young as 18 and they’re all like 30+ like ???? AND NO ONE HAS AN ISSUE WITH IT. I just wanna kms already dawg 

sorry for the rant but basically their lowk might not be one group of men where the majority are trustworthy so don’t get your hopes up 😭 misogyny is just THAT normalized and ingrained in our culture that most men (and even women) have at least a few misogynistic views 

these people wanna fuck EPSTEIN 😭✌️💔