Today I got falsely accused as a Sex Offender for a make an "Ur Mom Joke"

Hi i have been using discord for a long time. I didn't see it as a bad app, but after today Im done and even want to bring it down to hell. So basically, me and my friend were on this server just messing with some commands suddenly this girl enters and starts beefing for no apparent reason. He had just identified a boy as a girl and he even apologized. She started beefing like an idiot. Then as a friend i protect her and make a ur mom joke to roast her which was way lighthearted. Then her moderator bf enters and both label us as sex abuser. Like cmon man have some sense. Then a senior admin comes. He sees our message and labels both of us innocent. But this moderator won't stop abusing me even when Im talking to someone else and then he says we treat everyone equally despite telling a few of his other mods to abuse me. Because Im a man and not a crybaby Im fighting back but Im out numbered. Im requesting for some help pls. This discord server is so biased that im done

this is 2 days after the fight

one information the fight happened 2 days ago. I felt people should know of the toxic community on discord